She explained: 'You cant say to people don’t worry you'll have a baby because you don’t know that they will, that’s what you want to say. When asked about what she would say to someone who is experiencing baby loss, Sally wasn't sure about her answer. People talking over you and being in a ward with people having babies it’s difficult.' You just realise what a difference kind words and gentle touch at those moments make, because I’ve experienced both. ![]() 'I remember the nurses not being kind, talking over you and prodding you. ![]() I remember going under the anaesthetic and just waking up and howling and being on my own in the hospital. Knowing that some couples have multiple miscarriages she became determined to get her body as prepared as it could possibly be for another pregnancy by taking vitamins and eating well.īut sadly it would be to no avail, as she would later lose another baby - and this time much further along in the pregnancy. Fourteen weeks isn’t that long but in your body you're feeling the sickness, the excitement and all these things.' 'We’d had a divide that started after Olly in that my husband and I dealt the diagnosis in very different ways and then this division over babies got wider, because he hadn't really taken onboard that I was pregnant. She continued: 'Having had a baby the first six months is getting your head around what on earth this means and once you’ve had a child you bond very early don’t you? That was grim and very hard to deal with as a couple. He didn't take the miscarriage as badly as Sally did as she was only 14 weeks along. Sally said that losing their first baby caused a rift in her marriage to her now ex-husband Andrew Bermejo. 'I said that I wanted my baby back but they had incinerated him or her, because they said it didn't not qualify, as it was only ''Products of Conception'', which is obviously not at all how you feel about it.' I helplessly handed the baby to a nurse, she said they would run tests. Sally said: 'I eventually gave birth in a hospital toilet onto one of those cardboard trays and what came out looked like a baby. ![]() Speaking on TBN's chat show Soul Tears in 2018, Sally revealed how the pain of suffering two miscarriages also took its toll on her marriage to her now ex-husband. She later suffered another miscarriage after having her son Luke, and had to have the foetus surgically removed because she was too far along into her pregnancy. Sally and her ex-husband share three sons, Olly, 17, Luke, 13, and Tom, 10, pictured in 2018
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